You Cannot Please Everyone @ The Man, The Boy And The Donkey Story Experience

Today is another new day. Frankly speaking, I feel that Honesty and Truth is a very expensive gift as not much people willing share as we have our own commitment. Somehow Public Bank staff phoned me today and offering me 3.2% interest rate for my car loan and the different from Affin bank 2.92% car loan is just around RM10 as below.
The truth is bank will still call you despite I have my brother as my car's guarantor. Anyways, I would like to share the The Man, The Boy And The Donkey Story as I truly feel that you cannot please everyone in your life.
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A Man and his son were once going with their Donkey to market. As they were walking along by its side a countryman passed them and said: "You fools, what is a Donkey for but to ride upon?"

So the Man put the Boy on the Donkey and they went on their way. But soon they passed a group of men, one of whom said: "See that lazy youngster, he lets his father walk while he rides."

So the Man ordered his Boy to get off, and got on himself. But they hadn't gone far when they passed two women, one of whom said to the other: "Shame on that lazy lout to let his poor little son trudge along."
Well, the Man didn't know what to do, but at last he took his Boy up before him on the Donkey. By this time they had come to the town, and the passers-by began to jeer and point at them. The Man stopped and asked what they were scoffing at. The men said:
"Aren't you ashamed of yourself for overloading that poor donkey of yours and your hulking son?"
The Man and Boy got off and tried to think what to do. They thought and they thought, till at last they cut down a pole, tied the donkey's feet to it, and raised the pole and the donkey to their shoulders. They went along amid the laughter of all who met them till they came to Market Bridge, when the Donkey, getting one of his feet loose, kicked out and caused the Boy to drop his end of the pole. In the struggle the Donkey fell over the bridge, and his fore-feet being tied together he was drowned.
"That will teach you," said an old man who had followed them:

Moral of the story: Please all, and you will please none!
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Seriously I just feel this is very real as it happen to our society in someway.
Over time, I really asked myself what is my intention of blogging after so many years? Is it partly because of passion? Is is because of money? Sometime it is very hurt when people accusing me saying that I earn a lot $$ but when I shared my 7 years of part time blogging income experience, then they think I am lying.
Honestly, the danger of trying to please everyone will only make yourself very tired in the end. Moreover, I always seeks for approval from others whether the things that I do is right or wrong. Somehow I do remember my brother once told me that why you so care about what others people say about you? You're not celebrity or important people also, no one really goes to cares much about what you eat, what you do and I just feel to close my blog every time this thought goes into my mind.

Do you agree that guy's problem mostly only two thing which is girls and money statement? I did asked myself why want to be so successful and rich in life and the answer seems to be seeking for safety and proving to people that I'm capable and matured person as a 25 year old guy. Over time, I tends to research a lot using my blog as a "tanker/shield" in order to test out something before making any decision and it seems that it could be just a waste of time after 8 years of writing. I do have a good intention to find out what is the reason behind a organization can be so successful although some of it might be "not so good business model" in someway. Besides, I also try to find the reason behind of the "fallen company" although having 20+ years of operation but didn't make it in the end. There's a Chinese sentence that I find quite meaningful which is "你看到我“成功”的那一页，可是你不知道我背后付出失败的那九十九页。" as they thought I earn a lot $$ again when I share my blog's traffic as below.


Somehow I just closed my "negative Facebook account" as I don't wish to create any problem.
At last, it is so true that "DO NOT lose your courage no matter what, because if we give up, game is over." sharing by Top Secret movie when his father advice him that "the real business is not fun like the online games you've played, this is the real world, there are real cheating, real bankrupt, even the adult person cannot survive from the ugly business, how's about the teenager like you would be?"
Hereby I end my post with this Thailand song that cheered me up.
My smile is a lie, it masks my pain and hides how I truly feel. Look at my eyes and you will see the truth. My mouth lies, while my eyes can only cry, find arms that will hold you at your weakest times, eyes that will see you at your ugliest, and a heart that will love you at your worst, then you will have found true love. Wishing everyone have a great day ahead.
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