Today I'm kinda lazy to fetch people around. One of the reason is partly because no one accepted my request to go Sudo Brew even the coffee and rides is totally FREE. Besides, I also any girl whether want go drink FREE coffee but didn't get any response. Truth to be told, up to this date I just fetch guy go only and it seems like "so gay" in someway. I guess it is not about free stuff but it is more about TIME. During the afternoon, I saw "something" and suddenly my heart is bleeding in someway. I wonder why myself so stupid and stubborn after all this years as the feelings is like begging people to like me such as saying "Please Love Me? Love Me Please?" in someway. Anyways, I did still stick with my "core" of blogging as I wish to help some "failed guys" to be successful in relationship when they look on how fail I am in life. Is there any guys out there mind to share how to find casual dating as I am trying to adapt with the adult world as a 25 year old guy.
As I was on my way to update my delayed blog post, suddenly I saw one Chinese sentences saying that "重要的不是别人如何看你,而是你如何看自己。" (It is not about how others see you, it is about how you see yourself) and I felt it is quite meaningful and recalled a lot of memories. Over time, I always think about how others see me and always be careful to carry myself in real life to create the good image / impression for others. However, I found it is useless because if you try to please everyone, you're pleasing no one in the end. This is similar like you're saying a guy is so "flower heart" simply go target so many girls at once but finally this guy get the girls he want while you're just sadding/emoing around without getting anything. Anyways, I just remember Mr S sharing with me 2 days ago when I asked him how to chase girl (怎样追女仔) because this is the things that school or college never teach us since young.
He introduced me a online dating mobile apps and I just downloaded at Sudo Brew with their 50 Mbps internet speed. I started to swipe for 1 hour and eventually got a notification that I can't use for 12 hour unless I pay money to use the apps. Today I was quite free and I decided to try out the Tinder Malaysia mobile apps again by paying RM32.72 monthly to try out their Tinder Plus where you can rewind your last swipe, change your location, unlimited likes and turn off ads function as below.
Apparently there is two option which is either you pay RM32.72 a month or 12 months for RM17.46 monthly for the Tinder Plus membership.
The payment process is fast as I just use my Maybank credit card to pay for it and noticed there is extra RM4 for CC activation fee as below.
I'm not sure it is auto renew on subscription monthly but I will check out next month.
After that, I just bought a new high quality 32GB Class 10 TF/SD Cards memory cards for RM8 at Lazada using the RM20 FREE voucher that I win from Mobile88 website as below.
Besides, I also bought some Dominos Pizza before start playing the Tinder apps.
Somehow I still wonder why the Paktoh apps notification suddenly pop up in my phone while I playing Tinder apps but I didn't use it as I felt the user base there seems to be fake and you need to pay around RM99 monthly to unlock the features inside as below.
After that, I played the Tinder about 1 hour and swiping in my surrounding location until it shows no one around me.
At this moment of writing, I no longer see races as I can accept whether it is Malay, Indian or others races other than just selecting Chinese.
I guess this Tinder apps is just an opportunity to meet up with girls regardless of what races because the girls need to like you too if you need a match. So if you keep swiping cancel, you won't get any girl message you according to Mr S. Besides, I also tested to switch to other location like Los Angeles, California, USA to London, Great Britain UK to Malaysia and finally to Singapore as below.
Somehow I just noticed the girls in Singapore is so beautiful until you don't even need to see face and click LIKE for 100++ times.
It is because you just want to know someone there and FACE or RACE is NOT important. Anyways, I still didn't get any matches in the end of writing this blog post despite I had already clicked almost 300+ likes of girl profile on the apps especially in Malaysia.
Perhaps you can give a try too by download the apps at the link below and who know we might have a chance to meet up?
Android Tinder Link: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.tinder&hl=en
IOS Tinder Link: https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/tinder/id547702041?mt=8
At last, I just feel that everything is possible in life whether I will be marry to a Malay or others races as I try to be more "open-minded" in someway. Apparently my two of my relatives also married to Malay and I do celebrate Hari Raya at their house every year. On the other hand, I start to feel that it is quite true that if the girl really like you, she don't really cares whether you got money or not. For instance, if you keep showing like "Hey hey hey, girls!!! I am very very rich and driving a BMW car, do you want to be with me?", would you think the girl want to be with you? No doubt every guy do hope can become rich first before start chasing girl but that time you will be very old and I guess most of the people just hope can get the things that they want at young age instead of old. For me, I wish to drive a BMW at young age and still fighting for it as my personal goal before 30 year old.
Anyways, I still finding my ways to achieve it one day.
Furthermore, there is no right or wrong whether you're chasing money first to chase girl later or chase girl first then only chase money and it would be great if this both can be done concurrently. As an example, you can think in a way that if the girl is come from rich family background, do you think your money is important to her? No, she just want your attention and your caring only which is the things that matters most. I do remember Mr Aki do shared with me before that a girl just want the guy treat them like a princess and be No.1 in their heart although I'm not sure it is true or not. Before I end my post, I would like to share a Chinese sentences as an ending for this blog post and sorry for not able to translate into English.
As I was on my way to update my delayed blog post, suddenly I saw one Chinese sentences saying that "重要的不是别人如何看你,而是你如何看自己。" (It is not about how others see you, it is about how you see yourself) and I felt it is quite meaningful and recalled a lot of memories. Over time, I always think about how others see me and always be careful to carry myself in real life to create the good image / impression for others. However, I found it is useless because if you try to please everyone, you're pleasing no one in the end. This is similar like you're saying a guy is so "flower heart" simply go target so many girls at once but finally this guy get the girls he want while you're just sadding/emoing around without getting anything. Anyways, I just remember Mr S sharing with me 2 days ago when I asked him how to chase girl (怎样追女仔) because this is the things that school or college never teach us since young.
He introduced me a online dating mobile apps and I just downloaded at Sudo Brew with their 50 Mbps internet speed. I started to swipe for 1 hour and eventually got a notification that I can't use for 12 hour unless I pay money to use the apps. Today I was quite free and I decided to try out the Tinder Malaysia mobile apps again by paying RM32.72 monthly to try out their Tinder Plus where you can rewind your last swipe, change your location, unlimited likes and turn off ads function as below.
Apparently there is two option which is either you pay RM32.72 a month or 12 months for RM17.46 monthly for the Tinder Plus membership.
The payment process is fast as I just use my Maybank credit card to pay for it and noticed there is extra RM4 for CC activation fee as below.
I'm not sure it is auto renew on subscription monthly but I will check out next month.
After that, I just bought a new high quality 32GB Class 10 TF/SD Cards memory cards for RM8 at Lazada using the RM20 FREE voucher that I win from Mobile88 website as below.
Besides, I also bought some Dominos Pizza before start playing the Tinder apps.
Somehow I still wonder why the Paktoh apps notification suddenly pop up in my phone while I playing Tinder apps but I didn't use it as I felt the user base there seems to be fake and you need to pay around RM99 monthly to unlock the features inside as below.
After that, I played the Tinder about 1 hour and swiping in my surrounding location until it shows no one around me.
At this moment of writing, I no longer see races as I can accept whether it is Malay, Indian or others races other than just selecting Chinese.
I guess this Tinder apps is just an opportunity to meet up with girls regardless of what races because the girls need to like you too if you need a match. So if you keep swiping cancel, you won't get any girl message you according to Mr S. Besides, I also tested to switch to other location like Los Angeles, California, USA to London, Great Britain UK to Malaysia and finally to Singapore as below.
Somehow I just noticed the girls in Singapore is so beautiful until you don't even need to see face and click LIKE for 100++ times.
It is because you just want to know someone there and FACE or RACE is NOT important. Anyways, I still didn't get any matches in the end of writing this blog post despite I had already clicked almost 300+ likes of girl profile on the apps especially in Malaysia.
Perhaps you can give a try too by download the apps at the link below and who know we might have a chance to meet up?
Android Tinder Link: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.tinder&hl=en
IOS Tinder Link: https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/tinder/id547702041?mt=8
At last, I just feel that everything is possible in life whether I will be marry to a Malay or others races as I try to be more "open-minded" in someway. Apparently my two of my relatives also married to Malay and I do celebrate Hari Raya at their house every year. On the other hand, I start to feel that it is quite true that if the girl really like you, she don't really cares whether you got money or not. For instance, if you keep showing like "Hey hey hey, girls!!! I am very very rich and driving a BMW car, do you want to be with me?", would you think the girl want to be with you? No doubt every guy do hope can become rich first before start chasing girl but that time you will be very old and I guess most of the people just hope can get the things that they want at young age instead of old. For me, I wish to drive a BMW at young age and still fighting for it as my personal goal before 30 year old.
Anyways, I still finding my ways to achieve it one day.
Furthermore, there is no right or wrong whether you're chasing money first to chase girl later or chase girl first then only chase money and it would be great if this both can be done concurrently. As an example, you can think in a way that if the girl is come from rich family background, do you think your money is important to her? No, she just want your attention and your caring only which is the things that matters most. I do remember Mr Aki do shared with me before that a girl just want the guy treat them like a princess and be No.1 in their heart although I'm not sure it is true or not. Before I end my post, I would like to share a Chinese sentences as an ending for this blog post and sorry for not able to translate into English.
这辈子,和谁过, 怎样过,过多久,有人因为爱情,有人因为物质,有人因为容貌, 有人因为前途,有人因为压力。而当这日子真的要和选择的人一起过了,你才明白,钱够花就好, 容貌不吓人就行。其实真正幸福的标准,无需理由很简单, 只要笑容比眼泪多,你就找对人了。
I wish I can help more people, even when you know they can't help you back in life.
You need to fail at least 1,000 times before you can success no matter it is business, relationship or life. Stay positive!
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