Somehow I do saw a lot of comment back in my FB stated that I'm bias to choose beautiful girl. Truth to be told, I have accepted every request as long as she is a girl regardless of race, looks and body size. (Sounds so desperate meh? LOL) Anyways, I found out the truth that if you try ask similar message like the one stated below to a beautiful girl, most of them won't even reply even if you use all your real profile.
Step 1: Ask her out.
Step 2: If she didn't want to have romantic relationship with you, move the F88K on.
You can do: i) Talk to more girls, talk to the girl standing beside you, talk to as many girls you can because the more girls you talk to, you more likely you will meet someone you mutual connected with one day.
ii) Work on your damn self. You start spending hour and hours thinking about this girl you want to be with, now you have free time, go outside, go traveling, go to the gym, take some new hobbies, learn a new language. Women like guys who lead interesting life.
I'm wish someone will tell me this 10 years ago! You know that girl, that girl that you decided to be the one with you, the girl that you have imagine fairy tail romance, the girl that you fantasy at night, you are wrong about her, You are WRONG! Your life is not a romantic comedy, she's not going to come around someday, she is not going to leave her boyfriend, SHE is NOT the ONLY One out there. You're too obsessed with a girl that doesn't like you back. So stop making excuse and go meet more girls.
As for my personal thought, just IGNORE all those people who talk about you that you're a "flowerheart guy" if you use the above method because in the end of the days, really no one cares and feel free to read this "Six harsh truths which will make you a better person" article. Moreover, I do saw some girl pretend that they're SINGLE but the FACT that they're in a relationship. Perhaps they are trying to find a better prospect by doing so despite they already have a boyfriend. On the other hand, do you know that in Vietnam, if the girl reach 30 year old and still unmarried, they're consider as "unwanted" by the local people, that's the reason why most of them want to get married at young age. I get to know this from one of my passenger sharing. Guy's value will be more valuable as they grown older. One of my blog purpose is to help guys who failed in relationship to learn something from my experience sharing.
I might be wrong and there is no right or wrong about my thought, you just need to take the good one and ignore those ranting stuff. What I can advice is Don't let your past steal your future, move on!
If you still thinking of your past, you will never move on, like what I did for those few years and so easily hurt while the girl is enjoying with someone out there. *You continue cry lah, even if you cry father cry mother, she will never come back*
Later on the night, I just get to know one of my relative cousin's father had pass away.
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我发现，我们每天最忙着追求的，包括财富、名气、地位等，到了人生最后阶段，没有人在乎，我送走四、五百个病人，没有人跟我说他要更多钱、更多的地位、更高的官阶。当四、五百个濒死的人都跟你讲一样的话，你就会理解，这是真理。我开始想，假如我真的死了，这样的人生──大部分时间都在忙着读书、考执照，为了所谓的前途和钱途，累积付出我所有的时间……这样一个看似漂亮的人生，我真的没有遗憾吗？
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Life is Short, Wake Up, Live and be Happy!
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