First Time Drive Parent To Relative House With My New Car Experience

Today is another new day of life. Luckily I am still have my so call "passion" to continue write this post despite it has been so many years past, yet I'm still doing the similar blogging thingy in someway. During the afternoon, my mother decided to visit her relative house. Hence, I told my parent that I will be their driver and it is my first time to drive my parent to relative house with my new car for this year Chinese New Year 2016. Around 1.10pm we make a move from home and I drive all the way to relative house at Selayang area from Klang.
Upon arrival, we have our lunch there and waited other relatives to come. I was watching some olden day's Chinese Movie from 1980+ year at there. Frankly speaking, it is kinda boring in someway as there is nothing much to do since I'm not a talkative person. However, we do have some small gambling session and I think I lost RM25+ at there.

On the other hand, I just saw the news that "Rocket Internet to shut down carpooling app Tripda" and it reminds me some of my past memories that I was offered a job in someway after the blogging event. However, I didn't accept it and thanks to my ex-boss sharing something to me. I felt lucky that I had listened to his advice although I no longer work for him but I am grateful for it. During the evening, we make a move around 6.30pm to One Utama Shopping Centre at Bandar Utama. I was lucky again to get a car park in front of the entrance at basement floor.
The main center is decorated with Chinese New Year decoration but I can see a lot of shop closed today due to CNY celebration.
During the night, we have our dinner at Sakae Sushi One Utama and I just saw this RM2,100 monthly salary to work there as there is no degree qualification required to do this job.
This suddenly make me think about my "RM10,000" blog post and felt down for the feedback I received. I guess the majority of people who leave comment is kinda negative and mostly advice the younger generation not to study so much unless the course you study is really something professional like engineering, medicine and etc.

From what I see, I guess it is all about MONEY issues again in the end if you haven become a rich person yet. So if you can play Dota 2 and earn a lot of money from it, you're being consider as having a successful career and this happen same to whatever job you do that let you become rich in order to be categorize as so call "successful" person in life. Anyways, I just trying to not think so much about it because life is short to be care about people who do not give a damn about you in forum. Somehow I still enjoyed my dinner at Sakae Sushi despite I didn't win the gifts toys below.
After that, we continue to walk around and went back home. I arrived my home at 10pm and my secondary friend "jio" (asked) me to "yumcha" at Klang Parade. I just quickly drove my car to meet them since it has been quite some time I didn't see some of my secondary friend after work. I enjoyed the "Chui Shui" (吹水) moment as we often joke about our past in study time.

I guess it is true that study is a privilege in life because let say you quit study and start to work after complete Form 3 secondary school, you might lost your childhood and miss the opportunity to get to know more friends. Looking back at my diploma/advance diploma and also degree moment at UK, I guess the most important is having different circle of friends and networking session. This is also one of the reason why you can see a lot people go Harvard to study is not just purely to study, but also network with people who have similar knowledge/background. Just imagine if you can make it to study at oversea although you take loan, most of your friends is also having similar capabilities no matter in term of financial or knowledge right? Anyways, this is just purely my opinion and there is no right and wrong. I guess what was important in the end of our life is live to the fullest and have no regrets. This can be seen when my sister told me that she regret didn't go oversea to study last time.

I just told myself to be grateful for everything I experience in life because life is short. Every second is really valuable when your age start to catch up. Feel free to watch Dr Richard Teo sharing about "Life, Wealth, Success & Happiness" Youtube video again as below.
I watched again and found what he shared is kinda true in someway although I haven reach that level yet as below.
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You know the classical Chinese New Year that is coming up. In the past, what do I do? Well, I will usually drive my flashy car to do my rounds, visit my relatives, to show it off to my friends. And I thought that was joy, you know. I thought that was really joy. But do you really think that my relatives and friends, whom some of them have difficulty trying to make ends meet, that will truly share the joy with me? Seeing me driving my flashy car and showing off to them? No, no way. They won’t be sharing joy with me. They were having problems trying to make ends meet, taking public transport. In fact i think, what I have done is more like you know, making them envious, jealous of all I have. In fact, sometimes even hatred.

Everyone knows that they are going to die; every one of us knows that. The truth is, none of us believe it because if we did, we will do things differently. When I faced death, when I had to, I stripped myself off all stuff totally and I focused only on what is essential. The irony is that a lot of times, only when we learn how to die then we learn how to live. I know it sounds very morbid for this morning but it's the truth, this is what I’m going through.
Somehow I need to keep watching positive stuff to keep myself having similar mindset. Stay positive and be happy!
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