Over time, I tried to connecting the dots that happen in my life to find the answer although I might be wrong for sometime. For instance, I might assume the friend that become pilot at my same age, 26 born from 1990 would be definitely come from very rich family background since he can buy a RM2,100,000 house and become a pilot on the same time. Anyways, I just told myself don't compare since life is never fair, never is and never will be. On the other hand, it is first time to have a conversation that last almost 1 hour with a stranger girl, but the thing she ask is mostly about some investment thingy "OTS 126 (齐齐揾到食) or HLA (Hong Leong Assurance)" that I shared about last time few year ago. Just can say no doubt that there is people can make money from it despite it sounds scamming or cheating in some way. In fact, there is no right and wrong because every individual is different to define the word "success" as it can be white or black.
A millionaire friend just shared some tips to me as below.
1) Go do insurance
2) Go do MLM/direct sales.
3) Get annoyed and get rejected millions times until you can talk and handle any objections throw at you.
I guess this is kinda true and it truly differentiate the different of why I am just a normal person why he had become a millionaire. Most of us are afraid of fixed commitment such as study loan, car loan and etc including myself. But do you really dare to do something out of your comfort zone? If can't then continue to stay with your comfort zone and stop complaining.
The girl that I chat this afternoon did make me realized something and get some answer about life. For instance, you need to understand why she is so eager to make money and not living in the comfort zone like I suggest her to take a normal 9-5 office job upon graduation. This way might suit for me but not suite for her as sales job is more good if you're a extrovert person. On the other hand, she just told me that a lot of girl who become "Tomboi" (TB) or lesbian is partly because being hurt by some guys that wanted their body/sex. However, she shared that a TB or lesbian person might still able to like back the guy since their still a girl afterall and saying that "guy thingy" still the best in someway. Guess I am jelly to see so many TB able to chase such a beautiful girl if you look around the people you meet at shopping mall in Malaysia.
At last, I just can say timing is very important. I just need to "tahan" (endure) a bit and one day I will get there. Before I end my post, I would like to share "Hou Sam Hou Po" (好心好报) (Good hearts/deeds results good rewards) song that sang by Alex Fong (方力申) & Stephy Tang (邓丽欣). It is actually related to the Anniversary movie and Tong Wu Ju (同屋主) song in someway. Below is the lyrics of the song together with its Youtube video.
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妳决定要跟他日后同步。
他不懂爱惜妳，我乐意操劳。
Ｓ：我决意爱他，祝我愉快吧，
你最明白我，痛极亦留下。
伤得很重也不怕，我愿意等他。
Ａ：还看着妳，
Ｓ：他会感动吗？ 他已跑掉吗？
Ａ：看妳在悬崖走路，他却放下妳，只照顾自己。
Ｓ：我惯了爱他，你怎样做，在悬崖还是我，无退路。
Ａ：对妳好，无人希罕我好，无人欣赏我好，原来妳习惯他一套，
从来没有，爱我看得清楚我知道，不必得到不防陪衬但愿为妳好。
Ｓ：他，从来都比你差，仍然死心爱他，垂头再度听他欺诈，
祈求他说，爱我，为何尚未等到，
可能，这秒时辰未到。
Ａ：是受罪也好，听听妳哭诉，
妳说难过总比分手更好。
Ａ：情况坏到，
Ｓ：他也许做到，他也许做到，
Ａ：妳信任来年一日，他答应做到，通通都做到。
合：我也似妳的无从劝告，宁愿牺牲都不愿却步。
Ａ：对妳好，无人希罕我好，无人欣赏我好，原来妳习惯他一套，
从来没有，爱我看得清楚我知道，不必得到不妨陪衬但愿为妳好。
好人，恕我未能做到。
Ａ：妳当我是知己，我看得到，
我当妳是一生前途。
Ｓ：彼此也是沉迷盲目控制不到，
合：怎么好，都等不到。
Ａ：怎去做，无人珍惜我好，无人喜欢我好，原来要学会他一套，
从来没有，吻过记得清楚我知道，不必得到不妨陪衬但愿为妳好。
Ｓ：好，从来都知你好，为何他不够好，回来我又与他拥抱。
Ａ：未够好，我不够好，
合：仍然相信，我会有好心得好报，可能，到某日会知道。
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The sentences that highlighted in colours is something that I felt too. Apparently I still like the live version that they sang at concert below.
Overall it is a great song and I really like it.
=)